First United Methodist Church - Westfield NJ

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First United Methodist Church, Westfield, New Jersey

August 6, 2006 -  9:15 AM


Opening Prayer

It is easier to coach than to play; to be wiser as a observer than as a participant; to require honesty of others than to be honest; to recognize others in danger than assess one’s own risk; other’s foolishness, than one’s own stupidity. Therefore we need each other as David needed Nathan–a friend who told it like it is.
Help us develop friendships of sufficient depth that we might receive healthy confrontation to our everlasting benefit. Amen.


Painting

Nathan Beach, “The Petting of the Lamb”
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2 Samuel 11:26-12:13a (The Message, E. Peterson)

Narrator: When Uriah's wife heard that her husband was dead, she grieved for her husband. When the time of mourning was over, David sent someone to bring her to his house. She became his wife and bore him a son.
But God was not at all pleased with what David had done, and sent Nathan to David. Nathan said to him,

Nathan, the prophet: There were two men in the same city–one rich, the other poor. The rich man had huge flocks of sheep, herds of cattle. The poor man had nothing but one little female lamb, which he had bought and raised. It grew up with him and his children as a member of his family. It ate off his plate and drank from his cup and slept on his bed. It was like a daughter to him.
One day a traveler dropped in on the rich man. He was too stingy to take an animal from his own herds or flocks to make a meal for his visitor, so he took the poor man's lamb and prepared a meal to set before his guest.

Narrator: David exploded in anger.

King David: As surely as God lives, the man who did this ought to be lynched! He must repay for the lamb four times over for his crime and his stinginess!

Nathan: You're the man! And here's what God, the God of Israel, has to say to you:

God’s Word through Nathan: I made you king over Israel. I freed you from the fist of Saul. I gave you your master's daughter and other wives to have and to hold. I gave you both Israel and Judah. And if that hadn't been enough, I'd have gladly thrown in much more. So why have you treated the word of God with brazen contempt, doing this great evil? You murdered Uriah the Hittite, then took his wife as your wife. Worse, you killed him with an Ammonite sword! And now, because you treated God with such contempt and took Uriah the Hittite's wife as your wife, killing and murder will continually plague your family. This is God speaking, remember! I'll make trouble for you out of your own family. I'll take your wives from right out in front of you. I'll give them to some neighbor, and he'll go to bed with them openly. You did your deed in secret; I'm doing mine with the whole country watching!

Narrator: Then David confessed to Nathan,

David: I've sinned against God.

Nathan: Yes, but that's not the last word. God forgives your sin. You won't die for it. But because of your blasphemous behavior, the son born to you will die.


Questions for Reflection

1) Wrong-doing, coverup, exacerbation, denial, confrontation, recognition, [repentance, restitution, consequences]. Can you illustrate these well-worn steps from other’s experience, or your own?

2) Why do we take so long to accept that we can be and are forgivable?

3) Are the consequences too much to bear of our own failures?


“Life Can Be Like That”

Fred Craddock tells this story. He says, “I have never been to a greyhound racetrack, but I've seen them on TV. Those great, long-legged dogs chase a mechanical rabbit around the track. When these dogs get to where they cannot race, the owners offer them for adoption. If no one adopts them they are destroyed.”
He tells of visiting in a home where they had adopted a greyhound. The dog was lying there contented and Craddock reported this conversation he had with the dog. Craddock said to the dog, "Are you still racing any?"
The dog said, "No, no, no, I don't race any more."
"Do you miss the glitter and excitement of the track?" Craddock said.
No, no." the dog said.
"Well, what's the matter? You got too old?"
"No, no, I still had some race in me."
"Well, did you not win?" said Craddock.
"I won over a million dollars for my owner," said the dog.
"Then what was it, bad treatment?"
"Oh, no, they treated us like royalty when we were racing," said the dog.
"Then what was it?"
"I quit."
"You quit?" asked Craddock.
"I quit!" said the dog.
"Why did you quit?"
"I discovered that what I was chasing was not really a rabbit, and so I quit."
Craddock said the dog looked at him and said, "All that running, running, running, running, and what I was chasing was not even real!"


Prayer

Here we are, God — a planet at prayer. Attune our spirits that we may hear your harmonies and bow before your creative power, that we may face our violent discords and join with your energy to make heard in every heart your hymn of peace.
Here we are, God — a militarized planet. Transform our fears that we may transform our war fields into wheat fields, arms into handshakes, missiles into messengers of peace.
Here we are, God — a polluted planet. Purify our vision that we may perceive ways to purify our beloved lands, cleanse our precious waters, de-smog our life-giving air.
Here we are, God — an exploited planet. Heal our hearts, that we may respect our resources, hold priceless our people, and provide for our starving children an abundance of daily bread. Amen.
from Earth Prayers, by Joan Metzner


Closing Blessing

One: Go out from here and live lives worthy of the one calling which we all share. In humility, gentleness and patience, speak only what is true and loving and so grow into the unity that is ours in Christ.

All: And may God the creator reshape your hearts;
May Christ Jesus, the bread of life, sustain you always;
and may the Holy Spirit unite you in the bond of peace. Amen.


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